Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Knowledge Conquers Fear: October is Spina Bifida Awareness Month

You may remember my Oct. 11 post about my pal, Laurita Tellado, the amazing blogger who is bringing attention to Spina Bifida, a birth defect in which the backbone and spinal canal do not close before birth.

Laurita is currently raising awareness (and funds) for a team she is convening at the Spina Bifida Association of Central Florida's Inaugural Walk-N-Roll, scheduled for October 29 in Orlando, Fla.

Today, members of social media’s most prominent Latino online influencers – bloggers, business owners and networks – have partnered to educate audiences on Spina Bifida and support Laurita's fundraising efforts!

The Walk-N-Roll Spina Bifida Blog Carnival is being led by another amazing Latina, Angélica Pérez-Litwin, PhD, publisher and CEO of New Latina.

Angélica gave me an opportunity to write a guest post on New Latina about Team Roxy. I also had a chance to interview Angélica for a recent LatinaStyle article.

We need more initiatives like this one -- when we unite and collaborate, big things happen!

Please read Laurita's post below and donate to the cause on Laurita's Chipin Page.
Thank you!
Ashley


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October is an eerie month, filled with monsters, mummies, and the macabre. But while the occasional witch or skeleton might freak you out, one must concede that there are indeed more frightening things– like finding out your child will be born with spina bifida.

And yet, each day in the U.S., an average of eight families welcome a child with spina bifida into the world. Annually, an estimated 1,500 infants are born with spina bifida each year in the U.S.

I was born with spina bifida nearly two and a half decades ago. The diagnosis came as a total shock to my family, along with an entire set of secondary complications. I was also born with hydrocephalus, or “water on the brain.” During the first ten years of my life, it seemed I was in the hospital every other week with a bladder infection or shunt malfunction. I’d be lying if I said this wasn’t really scary at times.

But then, at age ten, I discovered a fantastic way to defeat my worst fears– knowledge. I vowed I would educate myself and read up on the condition that, up until that point, seemed to be taking over my life. Much like a child who imagines a ghost is in his closet, grabs a flashlight and realizes it’s only an old coat, I had come to the realization that, when you take the time to learn about something, no matter how terrifying it may seem at first, everything is less scary in the light of knowledge.

According to the Spina Bifida Association of America, “spina bifida remains the most commonly occurring birth defect in this country.” Just how common is it overall? PubMed Health, the Web site of the U.S. National Library of Medicine, reported in March of this year: “Myelomeningocele [the most severe form of spina bifida] may affect as many as 1 out of every 800 infants.”

As a 21-year member of the Spina Bifida Association of Central Florida, I’m doing my part to shed light on this condition by raising money for the Walk-N-Roll for Spina Bifida. When my parents and I moved from Puerto Rico to Orlando, Florida in search of better educational and healthcare opportunities for me in 1990, we found a support system away from our family and homeland in joining the SBACFL. My personal search for a public spokesperson for the spina bifida cause, as well as my work as a current member of the SBACFL board of directors, have helped me find my true purpose– galvanizing as many people as possible to support the spina bifida community.

So, in the spirit of shedding light on a little-known condition, and in honor of October, which is Spina Bifida Awareness Month, here are some statistics about spina bifida that might spook you a bit:



  • Spina bifida is more common than muscular dystrophy, multiple sclerosis, and cystic fibrosis combined.



  • Latinos have the highest incidence of spina bifida out of all the ethnic groups.



  • Ireland is the country with the highest incidence of spina bifida in the world.



  • About 50 percent of babies with spina bifida areselectively aborted after being diagnosed with spina bifida.



  • Doctors recommend that every woman of childbearing age consume 400 micrograms of folic acid daily to help prevent neural tube defects like spina bifida up to 70 percent of the time. In spite of this, there are currently an estimated 166,000 people in the U.S. living with spina bifida– up from just 76,000 just last year.



  • About 90 percent of people with spina bifida are also born with hydrocephalus. Many need a shunt inserted near the brain to drain the excess cerebrospinal fluid– and many requiremultiple shunt replacements during their lives.



  • Other very common secondary conditions include bladder and bowel incontinence, as well as frequent urinary tract infections.



  • After the onset of puberty, young people with spina bifida are more prone to clinical depression than most people. Researchers think this may be due in part to social isolation.



Being able to share this information with all of you today is without a doubt the most empowering and inspiring aspect of my life. I’d love nothing more than to give you that very sense of empowerment. Please publish this post on your own Web site(s), and feel free to add your own personal intro that will make it relevant to your blog followers. As many people as I’ve managed to rally in support of this cause, you have an advantage that I don’t–your audience. So, please share this information with everyone you come into contact with.


Below is a video that explains just why the Spina Bifida Association of Central Florida means so much to me, and why I’m participating in the Walk-N-Roll.




I will be raising money online for Team Holdin’ Out for a Hero until October 29th, when we have our Walk-N-Roll event. Donations can be as small as $5 or as large as $50,000. (Yes, I do like the $50,000 better!) Every cent counts! Every cent of every dollar will go towards supporting families affected by spina bifida in 22 counties in and around the Central Florida region and supporting educational and awareness efforts.


Yes, to the new parent, or even to the already-grown individual, spina bifida can seem like a scary thing to deal with. But there’s a power in numbers and a strength in awareness– a strength that gives us the courage to open the closet, shine the light in the ghost’s face, and reduce it to nothing but an old coat.


Thank you for helping me conquer my biggest fear– ignorance of spina bifida.


~ Laurita Tellado, HoldinOutforaHero.org


Wednesday, October 19, 2011

A Life Cut Too Short -- In Loving Memory of Brent Riley Swygert


Today’s the last day of my startup camp in Las Vegas, and with all the travel this week, I’m just able to post something today about a horrific event that struck my beloved friend Ty-yana Riley’s family. On Friday, Oct. 14, Ty-yana’s gorgeous nephew Brent tragically passed away while playing a choking game.


He had recently celebrated his 12th birthday on Oct. 10, and was excited about his grandparents’ visit to Atlanta. Brent was a sweet, happy child with a joyful spirit. I was able to spend time with him while visiting Ty-yana in her family’s home in Panama City over the years. I remember playing with him while he was just a baby … he was always beautiful … he could’ve been in Gerber commercials. He was growing up to be a very handsome young man … and was always so kind and sweet. I will never forget the anguish of Ty-yana’s voice as she tearfully told me what happened.


The choking game, also known as Blackout or the Fainting Game among other names, is not a game at all. Children and adolescents use their hands, a belt or rope, or have their friends push their chest or neck to feel a few seconds of light-headedness. What they may not realize, is that they are actually cutting off the flow of blood to their brain and the fuzzy feeling they get is actually caused by thousands of brain cells dying at one time. This game can cause serious injuries and even death. I’m embarrassed to say that I know about this game. I can’t recall who I played it with, but I remember someone pushing on my chest to make me faint. It wasn’t something we did frequently, but just something stupid we did, completely ignorant of the dangers.


You can see a news report about Brent’s passing here:

http://johnscreek.11alive.com/news/news/86606-johns-creek-choking-game-blamed-boys-death


He was a beautiful person, with his whole life ahead of him. Please join me in praying for his family in this incredibly difficult time, especially the Riley Family … who has been a family to me since I was in sixth grade … his mom, Sartee, sister, Lexis, grandparents, Mr. Al and Mrs. Edith, aunts Ty-Yana and Sangai, cousins Akili Love and Baby Riley, plus many, many more loving relatives and friends.


The wake is today, and Brent will be laid to rest on Saturday, Oct. 22. As you can imagine, this horrible tragedy came unexpectedly. If you are so inclined, please consider making a contribution toward the expense of Brent’s funeral and arrangements. You can show your support conveniently by making a contribution at http://www.charlieslittleangels.org/ in the name of Brent Riley Swygert. Your gift is eternally appreciated and completely tax deductible.


You can express your condolences here:

http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=Brent-Swygert&lc=7127&pid=154177556&mid=4850271&locale=en-US


Or you can snail mail items to the family: 2004 Kingsley Circle, Johns Creek, GA 30022


Please "like" the Brent Riley Swygert Memorial Facebook page:

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Brent-Riley-Swygert-Memorial/306356459378808


You can help prevent the unnecessary loss of young lives like Brent’s through education and conversation. For more information about the myths and realities of the choking game, plus a helpful educational video, visit:

http://www.gaspinfo.com/en/home.html


10/26/2011 Update:

Please see the following news report from WJHG in Panama City featuring Mr. Albert and Mrs. Edith Riley, Brent's grandparents.

http://www.wjhg.com/home/headlines/Panama_City_Couple_Mourns_Loss_of_Grandson_Warns_About_Choking_Game_132566913.html

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Support My Friend In Raising Money for Spina Bifida Awareness

Have you ever met someone and immediately felt like you knew them for years? As if they were put into your life for a special purpose?

That’s exactly the way that I felt when I met Laura Tellado a few months ago at Relay for Life. We were both volunteering with the Hispanic Young Professionals and Entrepreneurs (HYPE).

Not only is Laura just a plain amazing person with a friendly smile and great sense of humor, she is a gifted journalist.

Laura is using her blogging talents to raise awareness of Spina Bifida. There are currently more than 166,000 people in the U.S. living with Spina Bifida, but not a lot of people know much about it.

Spina Bifida occurs when a baby is in the womb, and his or her spinal column does not close all of the way. It’s actually the most common birth defect that disables people for life, according to the Spina Bifida Association.

Hispanic women have the highest rate of having a child affected by Spina Bifida compared with Non-Hispanic White and Non-Hispanic Black women, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. While research has shown that taking folic acid while pregnant can prevent having a child with Spina Bifida, there’s no known cure.

When I met Laura, she shared with me that there’s no celebrity spokesperson for Spina Bifida, but to me, Laura is the hero for Spina Bifida awareness. Through holdinoutforahero.org, Laura has started a very important conversation about people living with Spina Bifida, prevention, research and quality of life initiatives.

Want to join in the effort? October is Spina Bifida Awareness Month and Laura is raising money for the Spina Bifida Association of Central Florida's inaugural Walk-N-Roll fundraiser taking place on Saturday, Oct. 29. You can donate on her fundraising page by clicking here.

In addition, if you take this special flyer to any California Pizza Kitchen restaurant in Orlando (Florida Mall, Mall at Millenia or Waterford Lakes) this Friday, Oct. 14, CPK will donate 20% of your bill to SBACFL!

The promotion lasts ALL DAY, and applies to take-out orders, too.

Thank you for your support!